Helping Reluctant Readers: When Your Child Doesn't Like Books

When a child says "I don't like reading," what they usually mean is "I haven't found the right book yet." Your job is to help them find it—without force or frustration.

Understanding Reluctance

Children resist reading for many reasons: it feels hard, it seems boring, screens are more stimulating, or they've had negative experiences. Identifying the root cause shapes your approach.

The Interest-First Approach

Forget "balanced" reading. If your child only wants books about trucks, get every truck book available. Passion for ANY reading topic is the spark that spreads.

Personalized Books as Gateway

Nothing captures a reluctant reader's attention like seeing themselves in a story. Personalized books often become the first book a resistant child asks for.

Practical Strategies

• Read aloud anyway: Even if they won't read themselves, they benefit from hearing stories.

• Follow the child: Graphic novels, audiobooks, magazines—all count.

• Remove pressure: "Would you like to read?" not "Time to read."

• Model reading: Let them see you reading for pleasure.

• Create reading spaces: Cozy nooks make reading appealing.

Patience Is Key

Reading love rarely ignites instantly. Some children take years to find their reading identity. Your job is to keep offering opportunities without creating resistance.